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While love and trust are seen to be the most important things in a relationship, sex isn’t something to be ignored. Sex is important. And we don’t just mean doing the act – communicating about sex also helps deepen your relationship.

There are some sexually intimate questions for couples that can help you start this conversation. It’s not easy to talk about sex or ask sex questions, but it is important to have this kind of conversation with your significant other.

Why you need to talk about sex:

There are several reasons why you and your partner should talk about sex. One, you can’t always guess what your partner likes, so better ask them upfront about what he or she prefers. You wouldn’t want any awkward “wait, stop!” while you’re in the act. Sex preference questions can help.

Another reason is that talking about sexual desires can help you understand each other better. You’d also know whether you are willing to try something that you’ve never done before. You will become more aware of your sexual limits. You and your partner can increase sexual pleasure because you both know each other’s fantasies, limits, and preferences.

You may also feel a closer connection with your partner and become more comfortable with each other. Also, you and your partner can find out whether you are on the same page when it comes to sex, and you can compromise when you are not.

And of course, these types of conversations with couple-related questions can spice up your relationship.

Kinky sex questions that you can ask: 

Talking about sex can be embarrassing to some. It may be hard for some girls to think of dirty questions to ask a guy and for some guys to bring up dirty topics to talk with their girlfriends. But these conversations with your partner don’t have to be always serious and you don’t need deep questions. Make it “light” and surprise your partner by asking these kinky questions about sex:

1. What naughty fantasy do you have?

Let your partner talk about his or her sexual fantasy. You can even turn it into reality. Sexual questions can make your partner hot with desire.

2. Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?

This is one of the questions to ask a guy over text to turn him on and make him hard. But guys can also ask this question to their girlfriends. Keep them guessing. You bet they’ll be on their way to your house in an instant.

3. Can you tell me about the wildest thing you’ve ever done?

Although you may not be too pleased to hear about his or her past experience, think of it as a way to get to know your partner better. You might even enjoy this “wildest thing” yourself.

4. If we were to recreate a scene from a sexy movie, what would it be?

Be prepared to actually “recreate” that scene. The scene may not be from 50 Shades of Grey, but it can be just as hot. This is one hot, seductive question.

5. Have you ever tried sex on the beach?

Who doesn’t love the beach? And all the things you can do there? Ask your partner if they’ve tried having sex on the beach. He or she might just invite you for a quick romantic getaway at a beach so better get your sexiest swimsuit ready.

6. You can only touch me in one place. Where would it be?

This question will also allow you to discover his or her favorite body part of yours. And if you’re not comfortable being touched in that place, you can take this opportunity to tell him or her that, rather than telling them while you’re having sex.

7. Have you ever done it in a public place?

Having sex in a public place may be difficult, but it can be really exciting as well. This can be one of the hot conversation topics that you can talk about.

8. Would you do it in a public place with me?

This is a follow-up question. And a risky one, too. If you’re not comfortable with having sex in a public place, then don’t ask this question.

9. What would you do to turn me on?

His or her words alone may be enough to turn you on, but why not have your partner show you exactly what they’d do?

10. Do you watch porn? Do you think we can try to do the things you saw on the screen?

This is one bold question to ask as adult movies are sometimes just too much! But it can also be enough to get your partner aroused. It’s like asking, how dirty are you in bed?” in a different way.

11. What do you think about recording our own video? Does it turn you on?

While this sounds like one of the awkward questions for couples, you can try to get an honest answer from your partner. Just be careful if you decide to shoot your own hot video. You wouldn’t want to make it public.

12. What would you do if I allowed you to do anything to me?

This question will allow your partner to open up to you and let you know what he or she would do to you in bed. This is another question that can also turn you on instantly.

13. What do you think about getting tied up? What about tying me up?

While some people, especially guys, like to be dominant in bed, others don’t mind being submissive. You can switch roles and experiment.

14. What do you want me to do that I haven’t done yet?

This question will let you know some of your partner’s sexual desires and it can help you perform much better in bed. You’d know for sure that your partner will like it.

15. Do you prefer sex in the morning, at night, or now?

You might not get a verbal answer to this question. Instead, be prepared for a hot and steamy moment with your partner.

Now that you know some kinky sex questions to ask your partner, you can start that sexy conversation. Use the questions to deepen intimacy between the two of you. Not only will you feel a closer connection with him or her, but you might also experience the best sex as both you and your partner learn more about each other’s sexual fantasies and desires.

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